fights.
Fighting, as with most couples, and friendships, happens. most of our fights were not about anything, but rather about fighting itself. fighting about fighting. stoopid. we negotiated the rules, slowly, over time. all swear words got banned early on, towards the end of 2009. if you swore, the fight would turn from fighting about fighting to fighting about language, and lack of. Turning away, or no eye contact was soon to follow with in the ban. “Don’t start Kels” was banned in the middle of 2010. “What is that supposed to mean?” got banned, reinstated, and now it’s banned again. “Not that/this again” and “Oh my god Kels” took a few years to go on the index, but they made it there, towards the end of 2011. “What were you thinking?” never made the banned list, we fight, but we both understand what each of us is thinking.
we don’t fight much though.
